Military Members: Whats your opinion?

The military sans the deployments are no different than any other job. Saying that it isn't fair to the child to be in day care while a military member is at work is no different than a civilian going to work. The way that this comment can be perceived is that no mother should work. It is a fact of life in this day and age that both parents work and in a single parent environment, that parent has to work.